Hi All,
Need you chaps to do the following on 21 Feb:
1) Log in with a Google gmail account (many have still not done this)
2) List down the critics in your life. How do you feel about them and how do you respond to them?
3) Share what best works for you, and what don't work for you in responding to critics.
4) Comment online on your classmates' goals
5) Search and list one website/video site that gives good teaching/examples on responding to critics. Tell us why its good.
6) Share what works best for you in overcoming mistakes in life.
7) Search and list one website/video site that gives good teaching/examples on responding to mistakes. Tell us why its good.
8) Follow-up of last week's listed videos - Vote for your favourite goal setting video from (choose 1 only):
a) Edwin - submitted website, you can view but no need to vote. http://www.goalgenius.com/?gclid=CLL9ksvvnK4CFQUb6wod8mPHJA
b) Rahmat, Rizal, Lavin - http://www.ndt-ed.org/TeachingResources/ClassroomTips/Goal_Setting.htm - website, no need to vote..
c) Shirleen - submitted website, you can view but no need to vote, http://www.bestyearyet.com/personalprogram_12monthprogram.html?gclid=CIXAio71nK4CFUMb6wodPxKDLA
d) Hafeza - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wOlTdkYXuzE&feature=fvst
e) Haizil - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dOyfeZno72k
f) Ze Jiun - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SmY8JF50eT0
9) Total Defence Day Survey at https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/SSPP-Lab
Post your work under "comments" link.
Thanks!
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Example the video teacher just showed us.At first i though the lady was playing fool in Britian got Talent.But when she sing,the crowd keep silent and listen to her.Her voice is clear,bright and loud.She can go to high note without struggling too.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.parentstoolshop.com/HTML/STARTIP_criticism.htm
ReplyDeleteDoing something you like to distress yourself.Example hang out with friends or do any sports you like to distract you.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.pasturemanagement.com/21mistakes.htm
ReplyDeleteMy friend critics me. Sometime i feel unhappy and angry about it but i keep the anger to myself
ReplyDeleteOther people say i am stubborn all the time. Especially when i decided to come to ITE. But i didn't care what they say.
ReplyDeleteEarpiece in, Blast music. WORLD OUT.
ReplyDeleteMe and my friends criticize each other often but we actually don't mean it unless the criticizm went overboard
ReplyDeletehttp://www.wikihow.com/Accept-Criticism-With-Grace-and-Appreciation
ReplyDeleteForgive and never forget.
ReplyDeleteignore them while they critics me
ReplyDeletehttp://www.livestrong.com/article/14699-improving-assertive-behavior/
ReplyDeletePls state which question your comments are for and not just the website/answer.
ReplyDeleteFor e.g. 2) ignore them while they criticize.
For those of you who cannot post, after many tries, send to my email address and I'll post for you. Pls state your name.
ReplyDeleteMy email: ernestlimite@gmail.com
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ReplyDelete2)My friends and my family.I normally will ignore my friend criticism.For my family criticism,I will listen to them and change the
ReplyDeletebad habit that I have.
3)Ignore them when they criticism me,and go stay away from them.
6)Know your mistakes,change it and don't make this mistakes again.
2) My crew, friends n family... I always feel bad when they disturb me in the wrong way n i will feel angry when they are using me to play that makes me scold then with vulgarities...
ReplyDelete3) The Best thing about me is the joke that suits me, the fun game i played n the good friends i met
6) To overcome my mistakes is to be alone n refresh myself
2)My friends will usually say that im ver fat and make fun of me most of the time. I normally will just say that "Im fat and its the fact, so i dun care"
ReplyDelete3)Ignore them and pretend they never exist
6)Understand how the mistake is make, change it and try not to make it again
http://www.pasturemanagement.com/21mistakes.htm
ReplyDeletemy friends and family member keeep critics me. i feel so angry... and i will try control
ReplyDeleteCritics in your life
ReplyDelete2) My friends say about my non-average height, keep teasing about certain thing that I can’t do. Keep taking advantage of me.. When they want something from me or want me to doing something for them.. They pretend to be nice to me. They something don’t like and can’t take it when my good friends give me a nickname which is cute-cute and they say it not suitable for you.. Or is it because they jealous because someone give me that nickname. I feel angry at them, cause they say those word to me. I will prove to them that even I’m a non-average height. I still can live in a normal live and can still do thing like how other people do.
3) Just ignore them and walk away. There no use argue with them as they will say more not good thing to u..something what they said to me I might take it as it is true sentence about me.
4)http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2007/08/17/9-great-quotes-on-criticism/
Haafizah's post:
ReplyDelete2) M friends do critics me , at times i would feel sad about it and at
times i would feel angry however i'll just cool down and try to
understand what's my mistake .
3) Sometimes my friends critics me, instead of feeling angry about it
, i'll just smile and ignore it because I know myself better . However
if i were to feel down about the critics that i receive from them , i
would learn my mistake and change myself to be a better person .
6) I'll talk to someone who could understand me and give me some tips
and advises .
Hafiz's post:
ReplyDelete2)What i feel when i was critics , i try to understand that im doing something that they do not like it . Sometimes i felt sad because they must tell me something about me then i change .
3)My parents sometimes critics me because of school , friends , behaviour , attitude and the time i use for . Its feel sad when the just say it to me . But , i try my best to change without they knowing . I will show my parents and friends that i can change .
5)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sQ48Llzyy5s
6)Try to understand what they want from me .
Rizal's Post:
ReplyDelete2) From what I had watch the viedeo that the teacher show us:
people just thought that the Britis woman are old
who had not have a good voice but she proof them wrong that she is better and
she can show her talent to the whole audience .
(Rizal Foat)
3) Its like they didn't show respect to the person that they are critics at and
its not good when their parent knows about all this.
~ Rizal Foat
Haizil's Post:
ReplyDelete2) People criticise me of not being a good leader with my dance crew. Lack of Discipline, Lose Trust, and some other common things that people dont like it....
I feel depressed, and dissapointed of my wrongdoings and i didnt meet their expectations...
but in other ways, i managed to hold on with this kind of major situations by:
- Sit Down and talk things fairly
- Settle individually
- Friendly Dance Battle
3 and 6) Sometimes, in life there is so many people decides to do it the hard way of settling things , or maybe make it smooth....
things that doesnt work on responding these kind of critics is:
- Running away
- Asking for a fight
- Debating
But to avoid these kind of things, we should:
- Make a move first
- Approach them nicely
- Have a positive mindste
7) Here, this video talks about this guy, a super bowler, responds to people who criticise him:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYFeGz97ZQ4
Thanks all who contributed.
ReplyDeleteThe most common approach to critics that you guys shared is to ignore them. Sadly nobody mentioned about the 4As from the power point slides. Have a look at it.
May we all not be bogged down by our critics but to rise up and shine!
Whole class not listening or forget liao ><
Delete2) Say then say lohx.... There're mouth what also cannot do anything?!
ReplyDelete3)Think thought what my friend say?
5)Give good teaching
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LZ9Hpp8JygI
6) Don't Do it again
7)Got step given
8) e) Hafeza